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    Posted: November/27/2005 at 6:20am
I've been thru all this too so don't think it won't work for you. You can help yourself immensly by getting away from your own self or ego. Practice forgiving any and all who are in your life. Examine every thought for malice towards the other and correct it. I'm not religous. I call it advanced psychology. Prayer will help you. Ask for help from God and your true personal spiritual guides. Ask the same to help the other people in your life. Try hard not to indulge in sensual pleasures. In even the smallest situation with another person examine it to see what your motives are (to help or hurt). There is the positive and the negative approach to life. You choose. Keep in mind negative results may not manifest for some time but manifest they will. Make your choice. It's all about habit of mind and love towards others. You can reverse your mental habits. Abandon self gains. Just go with the tide of life. Deal with things when they come up. Stop persuing ego gains. Develop the habit of love towards even your enemies. Work at it. You don't have to perform acts towards them. Just make sure your thinking is right. Read Tao De Jing, teachings of Buddha, one liners from Jesus. They all talk about diminishing the self and letting life happen. Don't get sucked into church religon. It's all within. Not in going to church and worship. Talk little. Sleep little. Get a job if you don't have one. It can be rough till you get broken in. You can do it, you're no different. Get physically active. Run,walk,sports.
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Post Options Post Options   Thanks (0) Thanks(0)   Quote cd27 Quote  Post ReplyReply Direct Link To This Post Posted: November/21/2005 at 6:55am
Originally posted by Jana Jana wrote:

Good advice from Bear and Wolf.

Better to tell your parents than them finding out later via somebody else. Just be honest, you obviously regret doing it or you wouldn't be feeling bad about it now. People forgive easily when you are honest, trust me on that one!



lol..that's what i said ..yea, it's totally true. (i've done it on purpose SO many times-and it wrked)

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Good advice from Bear and Wolf.

Better to tell your parents than them finding out later via somebody else. Just be honest, you obviously regret doing it or you wouldn't be feeling bad about it now. People forgive easily when you are honest, trust me on that one!

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please do'nt kil your self , talk in out with some one perphaps a a trusted friend. or a pastor . its not worth it ending your young life .
peace out ! whatever ! its all good karen kris .
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you were only suspended right? tha's not that bad. anyways, just etllyour parents,you'll be surprised of how suportive they will be towardsyou. you're their kid! i have done some pretty bad things in my life and told tem that i did it, and they wre proud of me for being honest about it. in fact, if you tell them how sorry you and show them how bad it hurt you, they shouldn't have any roblem in trying to help you feel better.

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