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eh, not much! ur turkish? |
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Livewire
Newbie Joined: March/08/2004 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 25 |
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I know this is a depression forum but is there really a need to swear constantly? No matter what you say or do your mother will always be your mother. You can't do anything about it. Live with it and forget it. No-one needs there mother holding there hands as long as your over the age of 16. Put it in your past and forget her. |
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f u cn rd ths, u cn gt a gd jb n cmptr prgmmng.
I m a tru beleever n hour edukashun sistum. |
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Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one getting burned. As impossible as this sounds, you need to forgive her and the people who hurt you. When you can, you will finally feel a rush of peace and euphoria like never before. I believe that NONE of us do anything evil or wrong. Rather, we will always do what we feel is best and most protective of our ego. Consider the person who abused you. I would be willing to bet that THEY were abused as a child. In growing up, they "learned" that abuse = control = safety. While this does not excuse their treatment of you, it helps to explain it. It's all they know. We all try to do the best we can always -- WITH THE KNOWLEDGE, BELIEFS AND VIEWS OF THE WORLD THAT WE HAVE AT THAT TIME. When we KNOW better, we DO better. But, if our view of the world is twisted, we react a certain way to certain stimulii. And we react in the same way each time because our subconscious tells us this is what will keep us "safe." Don't blame the person. Pity them. If you cannot accept any of this, that's ok. For now, simply be open to the idea that there IS another way to think about your life and your past which is not hateful/hurtful. Namasté. |
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amiNkiddiez
Newbie Joined: January/26/2004 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 23 |
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thank you
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after all you put me through, you'd think i despise you..but in the end i wanna thank you cos you made me that much stronger!!!
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amiNkiddiez
Newbie Joined: January/26/2004 Location: United Kingdom Status: Offline Points: 23 |
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after all you put me through, you'd think i despise you..but in the end i wanna thank you cos you made me that much stronger!!!
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