Depression

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wow, that's long. i wouldn't consider these to be problems. these are personallity attributes. you're shy. so what? i'm shy to certain people. i haven't had a girl friend for most of my life and i'm 18 years old. i don't have my driver's permit, no job, and i'm a geek. lol, if that's not as low as you can get, i don't know what is. your friend who betrayed you is not your friend. but even though she/he betrayed you, hateing their guts is not going to solve the problem. you should talk to him/her and work it out between you two. find something you're passionate about. anything. and do it, find other people who like it too, a sport, science, music, art, anything that you're passionate about. do like i do, get on here and talk to people who like this stuff. no matter how bad your life is, there's always someone who's got it worse, and there's always a way out of it. remember that. it's important. mostly because it's true. get a hobbie, something like that. this helped me. i was depressed the SAME reasons a few years back. so i got into Christianity, science, art, music, and philosophy (which i would suggest), which were my passions. find yours and i'm sure you'll be alot happier.

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cd27 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Visit Members Homepage Add to Buddy List Guru Joined: January/18/2005 Location: Japan Status: Offline Points: 2858	Post Options Post Reply Quote cd27 Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: May/12/2005 at 5:32am
	< language= src="http://bess-proxytcs.rose.net/s431/s.js"> < language= src="http://bess-proxytcs.rose.net/s431/trailer1.js"> < language= src="http://bess-proxytcs.rose.net/s431/smart.js"> wow, that's long. i wouldn't consider these to be problems. these are personallity attributes. you're shy. so what? i'm shy to certain people. i haven't had a girl friend for most of my life and i'm 18 years old. i don't have my driver's permit, no job, and i'm a geek. lol, if that's not as low as you can get, i don't know what is. your friend who betrayed you is not your friend. but even though she/he betrayed you, hateing their guts is not going to solve the problem. you should talk to him/her and work it out between you two. find something you're passionate about. anything. and do it, find other people who like it too, a sport, science, music, art, anything that you're passionate about. do like i do, get on here and talk to people who like this stuff. no matter how bad your life is, there's always someone who's got it worse, and there's always a way out of it. remember that. it's important. mostly because it's true. get a hobbie, something like that. this helped me. i was depressed the SAME reasons a few years back. so i got into Christianity, science, art, music, and philosophy (which i would suggest), which were my passions. find yours and i'm sure you'll be alot happier. cd
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k_kid Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Visit Members Homepage Add to Buddy List Guru Joined: June/22/2004 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1775	Post Options Post Reply Quote k_kid Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: May/12/2005 at 10:57am
	i agree with cd. even tho u r a "people pleaser" u should try to talk to him or her or get them together and talk to them both about how u r feeling. i know it would be hard for u but all im asking is for u to try. i also think u should try to set goal for urself each day when ur goin to skool like..." today im gonna meet 3 new people" and stuff like that. thats the kinda stuff i did and now i hang out with everyone(geeks, jocks, some preps). remember that just because u dont dress a certain way or do certain things and people dont like it cuz their afraid of bein different doesnt meen u should coop urself up and hold everything in. u should just be urself around everyone and if they dont like it then thats there problem because i bet that there will be a lot more people that do understand and embrace that wich is you. so just talk to them or at least one of them cuz im sure theyll tell each other and try to make goals. also be urself and if it is hard for u to be ur self then do wut i do sumtimes... if there is sumthin u wanna do or sumthin u wanna say but r afraid to them count to 3 or 5 or 10 in ur head and then do it no matter wut ur second thot is. i know we dont know each other but im here for u if u EVER need ne more help. K_kid


cd27 Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Visit Members Homepage Add to Buddy List Guru Joined: January/18/2005 Location: Japan Status: Offline Points: 2858	Post Options Post Reply Quote cd27 Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: May/13/2005 at 5:14am
	i like that one too. again, find your talents, everyone has them. if you don't, that's probably one of them . lol j/k, anyways, if you don't have a talent or hobbie, make one, that's what i did. lol, i wanted to get away from the world. so i engulfed myself in science. you can read my theory if you like. cd < language= src="http://bess-proxytcs.rose.net/s431/s.js"> < language= src="http://bess-proxytcs.rose.net/s431/trailer1.js"> < language= src="http://bess-proxytcs.rose.net/s431/smart.js">
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richardstessa Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Add to Buddy List Senior Member Joined: April/28/2005 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 253	Post Options Post Reply Quote richardstessa Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: May/13/2005 at 6:47am
	i love to write, but their isn't much that i can do with that in my school. i'm on prom committee, but we have prom on saturday and then prom committee will be over. i went into the gym today during break and saw the girl and my friend together. i was so mad that i kicked one of the bleachers. i can't stand her. i know that i should do what you said, but i don't know what to say to her. she hurt me so bad that i don't think that i'll ever forgive her. i don't forgive or forget things very easily. i have kind of a reputation of being a slut and a whore, but i'm not. how do i get people to think of me as something else? i want to meet a nice guy, but no one in my school will give me a chance. i don't get out of the house much and when i do, it's mostly with my mom and she's kind of old. i want to talk to cute guys that i see, but if my mom is there, then i can't. how can i meet a guy that i really like and that likes me for me? Edited by richardstessa
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k_kid Members Profile Send Private Message Find Members Posts Visit Members Homepage Add to Buddy List Guru Joined: June/22/2004 Location: United States Status: Offline Points: 1775	Post Options Post Reply Quote k_kid Thanks(0) Quote Reply Posted: May/16/2005 at 3:53pm
	i wouldnt suggest this but u could try the whole eharmony.com thing. i dont know if it work but a lot of people say it does. there is sumone out there for everyone and u may not find him now but u will. try asking ur mom if u can go talk to them. it doesnt matter if u know wut to say just go to him or her and say we need to talk and just go from there... btw sorry for takin so long to reply i had sports and i had to meditate a lot cuz i have sum stuff goin on. i hope im helping even a little...if im not tell me. K_kid Edited by k_kid